Maui is more of a resort island known for its beautiful beaches and resorts. Great if you want to lounge around.
Oahu has a little bit of everything if you know where to look and has a few of the 1000 things to do before you die on it; such as hiking up Diamond Head; the view is spectacular! They also have the USS Arizona Memorial, Waikiki Beach, Ala Moana Shopping Center, Polynesian Culture Center, Sea World and Kualoa Ranch. Kualoa Ranch has several nice tours that take you off the normal paths that not many people realize they can tour. If you_re a film buff like me there is a movie tour that takes you through the areas where Jurassic Park was filmed, 50 First Dates, King Kong etc. Also don_t forget to eat some malasadas
Good luck with your trip planning.
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